Where Strangers Become Friends

PRAYER UPDATE #776

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COLLEEN KOCH SEP. 15/16

I started radiation today and will have five treatments. I will then start a new chemo infusion every two weeks. The chemo I was on before was not working, so have to have a new protocol. Looking forward to coming to PEM next month. See you all soon, Colleen.
Colleen & Arnold Koch Email:
ackoch835@yahoo.com

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Each night before you go to bed,
Pray to God and be thankful,
For what you've accomplished today!

PRAYER UPDATE #775


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BARBARA HOLLER SEP. 15/16

Barb was moved today (after 22 days in the hospital) to the Boswell Rehab Center and can now have visitors after 3:00 pm each day. She is in Room #503. The operations were very successful and now recovery time in rehab will be approx. 3 weeks. For more information, you can contact Wayne at either site #75 or phone 623.583.3736.

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NADINE LYNCH SEP. 15/16

My leg is in so much pain today. It's unreal. My meds should take effect soon. Can you pray for me?
Nadine Lynch Email:
mnl5031@yahoo.com


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FLORIAN VEZINA SEP. 15/16

We thought we would try to get out of this horrible heat for a while this summer so we went up to Colorado Springs to visit our daughter Angela & our son Robert & their families. The trip going up was good but 2 days after arriving, Florian started to be very short of breath due to the high altitude which is over 6000 feet. He progressively got weaker so I was driving him to his dialysis treatment 3 times a week & staying there with him for 4 hours each time. We decided to come back to AZ earlier that previously planned and decided we would stay in Grants New Mexico. Getting out of the van he fell down & he turned purple so 911 was immediately called & took him to a small hospital in Grants. That night they transferred  him by ambulance to a bigger hospital in Albuquerque, 75 miles back tracking.  His oxygen level at that point was only 67 even though he was on oxygen.  He was there for 4 days & had 1.6 litres of fluid removed from one lung which was the reason for the drop in oxygen. We were told the reason for the build up of fluid was the high altitude. We had to drive home the long way to stay out of the high altitude which added miles to our trip home. I drove all the way to CO and home again, 1500 miles which I never thought I would ever be able to do. Well he is back in the hospital again even though the altitude is very low here & again for fluid in his lungs. Prayers at this time would be appreciated & I am sure they will help Florian to get well again. Thanks so much my friends & we hope to see you all real soon. Donna, Site #134. Florian & Donna Vezina Email: fhdmvez@cox.net

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Try to make at least three people smile each day!

PRAYER UPDATE #774


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JUNE FORD SEP. 13/16

My wife, June Dimon Ford passed on September 11, 2016, from a stroke. Please share with the PEM community. Thank you, Bud
Bud Ford Email:
caford2@yahoo.com

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Life hurts a lot more than death!

PRAYER UPDATE #773


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CATHY HILL SEP. 11/16

I have to have a Lung Biopsy on the 16th of this month sure would appreciate all you prayers. Thank you, Cathy
Cathy & Ron Hill Email:
crhill41@yahoo.com

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Don't waste your precious energy on gossip,
Energy vampires, issues of the past,
Negative thoughts or things you cannot control.
Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment!

PRAYER UPDATE #772


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BILL HESSEL SEP. 10/16

Bill came home from the hospital Friday night.  He's very lethargic and not eating.  There was nothing else they could do for him in the hospital.  He needs to complete the rest of his tests as an outpatient.  He has a blocked artery to his left kidney and also some blockage in his aortic artery down by his stomach.  They need to make sure he is getting enough blood to his legs and also keep his blood pressure under control.  Evidently the left kidney is saying give me more blood and his body makes more blood but it can't get to the kidney and it causes high blood pressure.  We have a home nurse coming tomorrow.  I can't wait to see what she says and to tell Bill if he should be doing more than he is.  He has an appointment with his primary physician on Monday and then needs to see some specialists.  Thank you so much everyone for your prayers and thoughts and for taking time to write us a note!  It means so much to both of us.  Written by Gloria Hessel from: ghessel@cox.net
Bill Hessel Email:
bhessel@cox.net

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Take a 10-30 minute walk every day,
And while you walk, SMILE!
It is the ultimate antidepressant!

PRAYER UPDATE #771


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BILL HESSEL SEP. 6/16

Bill Hessel has been in the hospital for a week and he needs some prayers. He has a blocked artery to his kidney and it cannot be fixed.  We are waiting for plan B. Sent in by Gloria Hessel. ghessel@cox.net

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When you wake up in the morning,
pray to ask God's guidance for your purpose, today!

PRAYER UPDATE #770


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NADINE LYNCH SEP. 5/16

I need prayer for my upcoming total knee replacement on Thursday September 8th.  The nurse said it's very painful and I don't like pain...I've already had plenty of pain.  May God richly bless you for your Prayers.  They really help. Nadine
Nadine Lynch Email:
mnl5031@yahoo.com

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Don't compare your life to others!
You have no idea what their journey is all about!

PRAYER UPDATE #769


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EVIE DEWITT SEP. 5/16

Evie DeWitt (Larry) lost her battle with cancer last Wednesday. Larry & Evie Dewitt's site #333. Larry's summer address is 2148 Lakewood Dr. Prescott, AZ 86301.
Sent in by Peggy Bradley
bradleypeg@gmail.com

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BARBARA HOLLER SEP. 5/16

Barb had surgery this morning at 8 am, Mon. Sept. 5th to put a feeding tube in her stomach. She is still incoherent because of meds., and they are cutting down on her meds, but so far it hasn't been too successful and she is in a lot of pain because of this. She won't be able to have visitors until they can transfer her to extended care down the road. Her pneumonia is now under control.
Wayne also ended up in emergency for treatment after 12 long days of being with Barb and having to deal with all her pain. This is very stressful for Wayne. So we are asking for prayers for both of them at this time. Their site is #75 and his phone number is: 623.583.3736


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For if we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord.
So then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s.

PRAYER UPDATE #768


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DAVE NIEBUHR SEP. 4/16

Dave Niebuhr passed away on August 29 at 8:30 am. His wife and daughter in law were by his side. Dave will be missed by all who knew and loved him. Services will be in Lake City MN at a later date. Patty would like to thank everyone for the prayers, cards, gift cards and friendship shown to her by all of our PEM family.
Sent in by Peggy Martin
earlandpeggy@yahoo.com

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Although your work on earth is done
Your life in heaven has just begun.
Your struggles here were hard and long
But they're over now, you're finally home.

PRAYER UPDATE #767


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DAVE HOEFER AUG. 26/16

Coiling of brain aneurysm. This will happen on September 27th, very, very early. Everything appears to be quite positive. More Information: http://www.brainandspine.org.uk/coiling-brain-aneurysms Dave
Dave Hoefer Email:
dhoefer@gmail.com

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BARBARA HOLLER AUG. 29/16

Barb is still in the Thunderbird Hospital and will be there for some time yet. She has now come down with pheumonia and is still in ICU. She is unable to move at all right now and is not responding to Wayne or others. She has lots of specialists attending to her at this time. She will be moved from here when able, to a special rehab center. She is in need of all our prayers to help pull her through this and on the way to recovery. Wayne doesn't do email. You can reach him by phoning his cell at 623.583.3736. He lives at site #75 in the park.

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You never know how strong you are,
Until being strong is the only choice you have!

PRAYER UPDATE #766


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RON HAWES AUG. 26/16

We are asking for prayers for Ron Hawes,  He has Lung Cancer, starting his Chemo this coming week.. We still have friends there at  El Mirage R V Resort ..I would like to inform them what is going on.  We are in need of all prayers.  Thanks  Mary
Ron & Mary Hawes Email:
maryhawes@gmail.com

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BARBARA HOLLER AUG. 26/16

Barb went to the Thunderbird Hosp. yesterday, Aug. 25th for the neck surgery. It was a 7 hour surgery with 3 surgeons. They opened up her neck and cut into her main artery and worked on 5 discs and other parts of her vertebrate to get at the three modules attacking her nerves, which they did remove and placed in a platinum plate. Her recovery period will be an extended length of time. She can't move her head up or down at this time. She is hooked up to multi machines at this time which they will be removing as she recovers. There is NO visitors at this time. We are asking for prayers for a full and speedy recovery. Wayne & Barb reside at site #75. Wayne's ph. 623.583.3736

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Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present!

PRAYER UPDATE #765


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SUZANNE SANMAN AUG. 23/16

Suzanne passed away last evening, Aug. 22nd. She is with the lord now, becoming an angel.  God bless her! Dave
David Sanman Email:
2dasu2@gmail.com

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Time heals everything!

PRAYER UPDATE #764


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SUZANNE SANMAN AUG. 21/16

Up date ~ we were moving to Post Falls, Idaho to live by our son in an assisted living home.  I slept in a chair there that night, while waiting for the truck which was to arrive on Sat, which, it did not get there until 10:30 pm. So then, I slept at our son home in a bed.   While there, Sunday around 4:30 am Sue, got out of bed, walking to the bath room, had a stroke,  fell to the floor hard, and paralyzed her, all of left side, and went into a comma, and laid there until about 6:30.   When the nurse came into check on her and found her on the floor.   Sue was in care of the dementia side of an assisted living falicity (sp) on Fri., after being checked in.  They called 911 and a fire truck arrived there at the same time we did. Now, we are here at the hospice waiting for the lord to bring her home.   She can hear apparently, but, no response to anything around her. Not even to a question or to touching her. Please say a prayer for Suzanne with us.  She will be missed by all who know her!  God bless Suzanne !  Thank you! Dave.
Dave & Suzanne Sanman Email:
2dasu2@gmail.com

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However good or bad a situation is, it will change!

PRAYER UPDATE #763


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DAVE NIEBUHR AUG. 20/16

Dave Niebuhr (site#779) has been moved to hospice. Please pray for Patty Niebuhr during this difficult time. She would like to thank every-one for all the cards and friendship she has received. Thank you.
Sent in by Peggy Martin:
earl&peggy@yahoo.com

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O Savior, refocus us!
Show us your love, that our anxiety might be driven far away.
In your name we pray. Amen.

PRAYER UPDATE #762


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GORDON PARTRIDGE AUG. 10/16

I want to thank you all for all your prayers, cards and lovely messages of encouragement you have sent both during Gord's illnesses and passing.  Gord's Celebration of Life was lovely.  There was almost 200 people there.  Where I live is like a community of wonderful people just like PEM.  My daughter, Julie spoke on behalf of herself and sister Lynne and she just blew me away.  She was wonderful and my grandson spoke on behalf of all the grandchildren and had put together a presentation showing pictures of family and a lot of costume parties that were held over the years at PEM. I could just picture Gord looking down enjoying every minute of it. I was fortunate and surprised to see PEM friends - Muriel and Gregg Saunders, Ruth and Don Henry, Diane and Walter Pearson, Norma Saari and of course Marti and Don Hart and Diane and Harvey Lyman drove all the way up from Vancouver.  Gord and I were married 61 years and I miss him terribly but have so many wonderful memories to help me get through the days ahead. I wish you all good health and happiness and thanks again Marti for allowing me the privilege of communicating to so many through the Prayer list. Cynthia
Cynthia Partridge Email:
partridges@telus.net

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Don't cry over the past, it's gone!
Don't stress about the future, it hasn't arrived!
Live in the present and make it beautiful!

PRAYER UPDATE #761


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GORDON PARTRIDGE AUG. 3/16

Gord's Celebration of Life is going to be held at the Shuswap Lakes Estates Community Hall (the lodge) on Saturday at 2:00 p.m. Cynthia's address is #12, 2550 Golf Course Drive, Blind Bay, BC V0E 1H2 Cynthia Partridge Email: partridges@telus.net

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Anxiety Happens, When You Think You,
Have To Figure Everything Out!
Turn To God,
He Has A Plan!

PRAYER UPDATE #760


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GORDON PARTRIDGE AUG. 1/16

Gord passed away peacefully at home Monday, Aug. 1st around 2:00 PM with Cynthia by his side. More details will be sent later.
Cynthia Partridge Email:
partridges@telus.net

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BARBARA HOLLER AUG. 2/16

Barb is still waiting for her very important surgery on the neck & spine that can cause paralyzes if not treated right away. There is only two hospitals in Phoenix that can do this. She is in constant pain. Asking for prayers for immediate surgery and release of her severe pain. She is at home at site #75 at PEM.
Barb & Wayne Holler Email:
wayneandbarbara@aol.com

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Only God, who made our brains and hearts,
Can successfully guide them to a profitable end!

PRAYER UPDATE #759


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DAVE NIEBUHR JUL. 28/16

Dave is in the hospital and has cancer. He has had a tumor removed from his stomach. He also has pancreatic cancer that will require chemo and radiation. Please pray for Patty and Dave during this difficult time. They have no email but their site number is 779. Thank you. Sent in by Peggy Martin earlandpeggy@yahoo.com

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If you just want to Walk Fast, Walk Alone! But if you want to Walk Far, Walk Together!

PRAYER UPDATE #758


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BARBARA HOLLER JUL. 26/16

Barb has severe pain in her neck and back. The doctors have found three modules on the base of Barb's neck and needs immediate surgery before she becomes completely paralyzed. She is waiting for a call from the hospital and while she waits, they are asking for prayers. You can phone 253.820.6857 cell or 623.583.3736 res. Wayne doesn't do email and Barb will be in hospital.

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We walk by faith and not by sight!

PRAYER UPDATE #757


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GORDON PARTRIDGE JUL. 07/16

Hi everyone, Well at the moment you could knock me over with a feather.  Gord is coming home probably on Monday.  Apparently he isn’t deteriorating or dying soon enough (my words) so they are discharging him.  I knew the room he was in was a temporary thing – palliative care – but assumed he would be if necessary moved to another room.  His doctor came in yesterday and said he thought he could manage at home and had him assessed this morning by a physio therapist and yesterday by the interior health head and they came to the conclusion that he should enjoy his remaining time at home.  I believe I said before in one of my other updates that when a person decides not to carry on with dialysis it could be a matter of a couple of weeks or months – no one knows for sure.  I must say he looks a lot better.  He is off all medication and his kidney function has improved a few degrees.  This is a result of him having dialysis day after day while he was in Kamloops hospital.  He hasn’t changed his mind about his decision not to proceed with dialysis but of course he wants to come home.  A care giver will come in to help but at the moment I don’t know how often.  They will meet me here at home the day he is discharged.  The physio gave him some exercises to do to strengthen his legs.  Our whole family were here on Father’s Day and the boys brought Gord home and we had a lovely time being together.  We are so fortunate to have such a wonderful family.  Thank you to everyone who visited him in Bastion place and who have sent cards and e-mails.  How lucky we are to have such great friends.  Cynthia
Gordon & Cynthia Partridge Email:
partridges@telus.net 

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Accept what is!
Let go of what was!
And have faith in what will be!

PRAYER UPDATE #756


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DONNA KRESS JAN. 29/16

I would like to thank all those who supported Donna with their cards, calls, dinners and prayers for a successful hip operation.  She is doing well now and is grateful for such caring friends.  Thanks.  Art
Donna & Art Kress Email:
donkress1@gmail.com

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Give me a sense of humor, Lord!
Give me grace to see a joke!
To get some humor out of life!
And pass it on to other folk!

PRAYER UPDATE #755


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GORDON PARTRIDGE JUN. 16/16

As you know Gord has been through a lot for the last two years and is now currently in Kamloops Hospital undergoing dialysis for his kidneys.  He has had nothing but trouble and setbacks.  All of these things require more surgery and he decided yesterday he can’t take any more and after much thought has decided not to have any more dialysis.  We had a long talk privately, our daughter Julie came up and he had a long talk with her and also with Lynne on the telephone, the dialysis nurse and dialysis doctor and he is positive and at peace with the decision not to have any more treatment.  He is also off all medication except what will make him comfortable.  This afternoon he is being transferred to Bastian House in Salmon Arm so he well be closer to me and his friends if they wish to visit.  If you feel so inclined, I would appreciate your prayers that he won’t linger for weeks or months which would not only be hard on him but the family as well.  We have had 61 wonderful years together, have a beautiful family and it pains me that he has made this decision but respect his wishes and I don’t want to see him go through anything more. We feel so fortunate for all the wonderful times we have had both together as  family and as a couple and the many good years we had in PEM. Cynthia.
Gordon & Cynthia Partridge Email:
partridges@telus.net

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I am the light, he who follows me will never be in the darkness. 
I love you, Jesus Christ!

PRAYER UPDATE #754


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DONNA KRESS JUN. 11/16

The last month has been just terrible.  In pain all the time.   Using a cane and a walker.  Be glad when it's all over with.  I'm getting my new hip put in JUNE 20th. Have to get to bed and take my pain pill. Hopefully I'll get off of them pretty soon.
Donna & Art Kress Email:
donkress1@gmail.com

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FRANK SMITH JUN. 12/16

I talked to Betty today and she said that Friday night  Frank had a lot of pain in his side.   Saturday he went to the emergency room at the hospital.  They found out he had a huge mass on his right side. They put a tube in to drain it.  He is in a lot of pain and needs your prayers. Frank & Betty's address is: 1234  Bach  Dr, Waverly. Iowa  50677. Submitted by Donna and Art Kress.
Frank & Betty Smith Email:
franks7287@aol.com

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DAVE HOEFER JUN. 14/16

Earlier this week I was diagnosed as having a brain aneurysm. I'm in the process of being referred to a neurosurgeon for his opinion. It's small (5mm) and I have no symptoms. It was discovered from an MRI on my brain. My reason of telling you this is to see if you have any friends etc., that may have been through this. If so, please let me know how to get in touch with them. Please and thank you. Dave
Dave Hoefer Email:
dhoefer@gmail.com

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Driving down the Highway Hymns:
55 mph........................ God Will Take Care of You!
75 mph......................... Nearer My God To Thee!
85 mph............................ This World Is Not My Home!
95 mph.......................... Lord, I'm Coming Home!
100 mph......................... Precious Memories!

PRAYER UPDATE #753


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JOHN MCGRANE JUN. 06/16

John McGrane passed away peacefully in his sleep at 2:40 pm today, June 6th, 2016. John lived life on his own terms and died the same way ... with instructions to forego any "memorial services" at PEM in favor of a "celebration of life" party when everyone returns in the fall! Lovaun offers thanks to all for the caring, the support and prayers through the last few weeks. Lovaun Stuhlman, Site #F-116 Email: Jbudman@msn.com

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If our hearts are ready for anything,
We can open to our inevitable losses,
And to the depths of our sorrow.
We can grieve our lost loves.
This is part of our humanness,
Part of the expression of our love for life!

PRAYER UPDATE #752


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CAROLE DEWING MAY 30/16

It is with great sadness to inform you that my wife of 56 years, Carole DeWing, passed away May 2nd after a sudden illness. It was a sudden illness of type B influenza, the type you don't get a flu shot for.  It was complicated by bacterial pneumonia.  Even though we both had type A flu shots, and she had a pneumonia shot, we both thought we had come down with a serious cold until it was too late.  She played golf at Sun City Country Club, Carl.
Carl DeWing Email:
c.dewing@yahoo.com

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JOHN MCGRANE MAY 30/16

On Sunday, May 29th, John McGrane was moved to Hospice of the Valley, Rm#7.  Please keep Lovaun and John in your prayers.  Cards can still be sent to their home here, #F116.   For friends here in the valley, he is accepting visitors and calls at this time.
Sent in by Darlene Glover ndglover@q.com
John & Lovaun McGrane Email:
jbudman@msn.com

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When God closes a door, he always opens a window!

PRAYER UPDATE #751


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DONNA KRESS MAY 22/16

Asking for prayers for my wife Donna. She needs a new right hip and now has a lot of pain. We found a surgeon who will perform the operation After several problem with insurance. We now need an ok from a heart  Dr. before surgery. An  MRI showed an Irregular heartbeat, and the main problem is a murmur. We're having a test Friday. Prayers are needed for a clear test to go ahead with the hip operation.  Thanks, Art  Kress
Donna & Art Kress Email:
donkress1@gmail.com

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Those who walk with God,
Always reach their destination!

PRAYER UPDATE #750


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BEVERLY ANDERSON MAY 20/16

On Wednesday May 17th Beverly Anderson was going into the utility room from the garage. She turned to go back and got her flip flop caught in the scatter rug and she fell back onto the cement floor of the Garage, landing on her right side. That's a pretty far fall and she broke the rotor bone and others in her right shoulder. The bone had deteriorated and the damage is so severe that the Cat Scan shows that  the Doctor cannot do a repair and just insert pins but, Rather,  they have ordered a complete new shoulder and will do a full replacement on Wednesday, May 25th. She can look forward to 6 weeks in a firm cast after surgery and then a long  series of therapy sessions to get back her normal range of motion.
A lesson to be learned for women in their 70's, no flip flops & no scatter rugs on floors! They will no longer be allowed in our house.
Sent in by Ben Lindholm:
benlindholm@msn.com
Beverly Anderson Email:
beva1301@gmail.com

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When you carry the Bible, Satan has a headache;
When you open it, he collapses!

PRAYER UPDATE #749


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JOHN MCGRANE MAY 17/16

John was having abdominal issues. He was admitted into ICU at the Del Web Hospital and having tests done to find out what was wrong. Will send you the results as we find out. John and Lovaun live at PEM, site #F116. Lovaun's phone number is 626-824-2401
John & Lovaun McGrane Email:
jbudman@msn.com
Sent in by Darlene & Norm Glover:
ndglover@q.com

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The Will of God will never take you
To where the Grace of God will not PROTECT you...
Stay FAITHFUL and Be GRATEFUL!

PRAYER UPDATE #748


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VICKY MILLER MAR. 19/16

Please keep Vicky in your prayer's.  She fell and broke her leg this week.  She will be heading from Boswell Hospital today for a rehab center.  Will update where as I am sure she will enjoy visitors by then.  She lives in #46. Sent in by Judy Thompson: judy42day@aol.com
Vicky & George Miller Email:
vcmgfm@aol.com

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DOLLY CURRIER MAR. 20/16

I have heard from Dolly and she would like to send word out on the prayer list to her friends.  She has received good news from her doctor, is on medication and will be monitored.  She is thankful for the prayers that have been said for her. Her address is 2314 Marlborough Rd., Colorado Springs, C0 80909 Ph. number 719.473.6231 She has no email.
Sent in by Marge Dunn:
margylu2@cox.net

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Dentist's Hymn .... Crown Him with Many Crowns!
Weatherman's Hymn .... There Shall Be Showers of Blessings!
Contractor's Hymn .... The Church is One Foundation!
The Tailor's Hymn .... Holy, Holy, Holy!
The Golfer's Hymn .... There's a Green Hill Far Away!
The Politician's Hymn .... Standing on the Promises!
Optometrist's Hymn .... Open My Eyes That I Might See!
The CRA Agent's Hymn .... I Surrender All!
The Gossip's Hymn .... Pass It On!
The Shopper's Hymn .... Sweet Bye and Bye!
The Realtor's Hymn .... I've Got a Mansion, Just Over the Hilltop!
The Therapists Hymn .... He Touched Me!
The Doctor's Hymn .... The Great Physician!

PRAYER UPDATE #747


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GENE RADERMACHER MAR. 11/16

I wish to express my sincere thanks to the people of PEM and Christ's Community Church for all the cards, emails and wishes for the best, some delivered personally by my many friends here!  As I recover from open heart surgery your best wishes have been one of the most encouraging elements in getting better as the days go by. Bea and I will be leaving Arizona and returning to our beloved Montana next week for the spring, summer and fall and plan on returning for the winter of next year. Looking forward to that and again many thanks for the kindness extended us during this time.  God bless you all!
Gene and Bea Radermacher Email:
GeneRadermacher@aol.com

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Eat your food as your medicines!
Otherwise you have to eat medicines as your food!

PRAYER UPDATE #746


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JANET DERR MAR. 3/16

Janet Derr reports GOOD NEWS!  She is responding to her physical therapy much quicker than expected and she is giving all the glory to God.   She is walking alone, without a walker, with a family member close by when she ventures outside.   The healing process continues. Keep those prayers going up -- God is good! Thanks, Patti
Sent in by Patti Wittig Email:
pattiwittig@gmail.com 

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PAT STEVENS MAR. 7,16

Pat & Lloyd (site #96) left for home in Feb. as she was not feeling well. She was hospitalized and passed away yesterday morning (Sun. Mar. 6th). Lloyd Stevens address is 12419 - 91st Street, Edmonton, AB Canada T5B 4C7. No email.

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You are loved when you are born.
You will be loved when you die.
In between, You have to manage!